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Negotiating The Peace



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Ending The War Quickly
The only way to really win is not to fight the battle on their choice of ground. They only want to prolong the process until you are squeezed dry of money and energy. When your dough is gone and there is nothing left to divvy up, everyone involved will urge you settle... which is why 90% of all divorce cases are eventually settled out of court. Who can afford to stay in court for a justice that just ain't gonna happen?

Let Them Know You'll Go To The Wall
You must remove any incentive for them to prolong the process. You must convince them that you want this divorce to be fast and reasonable or to be a bloody balls-to-walls war. You must convince them that you are willing to go to zero to win. And that afterwards, there won't be anything left for her. Make it clear to her bloodsucker that by the time its over she won't have enough to pay a fraction of the bill.

You must be truly be ready to fight... and to fight as dirty as they are sure to. But it is still in your self-interest, after taking the high ground, and after letting them know that you are prepared for all out war... after you have made it clear you are prepared to make this her worst nightmare... that if she thinks your marriage was bad that wasn't even a pinch on the pain you will inflict on her... After all that, it is still in your self-interest not to set one toe into the bloodsucking judicial system... Go to mediation.

If you have a choice -- Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. Do not start the process with the hopes that maybe it won't be so bad. Go to mediation. Go immediately to mediation. And settle as fast and as fairly as you can.

Whatever you end up with after a fast mediation is probably many time more than what you would have had left after the bloodsucking judicial system got you in their clutches. And you will have saved yourself a ton of pain... and months of DMS.

Life After Divorce War
Whatever you've salvaged, be happy. Don't whine and mope an moan. Get on with your life. But don't expect instant happiness. Don't expect that two weeks later you will have put it behind you.

No Victory Is Total
No man emerges from a Divorce War unscathed. Even a major ass-kicking winner will carry scars for the rest of his life.

Studies have shown that even ten years after a divorce, a man will still have some pain, some misgivings.

Editor's Final Note
If you've taken the wisdom of this BattleSite to heart and followed the sage advice of the authors, be content that you've done everything you could have done inside or outside the law.

If you haven't followed the plans we've outline, I am sorry to say it, but you're probably a pussywhipped pissant of a wimp with an overabundance of female type genes and you deserve what you get, you cowardly disgrace to manhood.

Patton Lee Beaugus
July 4, 2000

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